Analyze versus over-analyze

“Your mind is like water, when it is agitated, it becomes difficult to see, but if you allow it to settle, the answer becomes clear”.

                                                                                         Dialogue from Kung Fu Panda movie

This dialogue is true in our real life as well. Isn’t it?

From some past experiences, I learned that it’s better to stop over analyzing the situation when things went wrong in our life because it makes the situation more complex. If something doesn’t work for you, make utmost efforts to correct it. But if the same situation persists then simply move on.

There is no need to complain or curse that why this happened to me? After all, we can learn from every incidence whether it’s good or bad in our life.

Very often, I saw statuses on social networking sites regarding the recent break up or the complexities of relationships or life. Recently I pinged one of my schoolmates by seeing an emotional status on her wall. While chatting I came to know that she had a fight with her fiance. To make him aware that he has done wrong, she posted it. I felt strange. I think that every person knows that where he/she is wrong. They don’t need an email or FB status to let them know that!! Not sure, maybe I am wrong ;-)

 My concept of facing any situation is somewhat different. I think if something is bothering you, discuss it with the concerned person and give your 100 percent to make it work. But even after that it doesn’t work than simply walk out. Don’t look at any situation with anger or regret. These two emotions really make life tough. I know practically it is very difficult to follow this but seriously it works. Now if anything goes wrong in my life, instead of blaming it to my luck or God, I analyze  the situation and try to figure out what I can learn from it!!!

Updates....

Last week, Point of View collateral which I recently authored on product compliance (Actually not recently; around three months agoJJJ) got published at my company’s website and very soon one of my brief write-up is going to be posted on business blog. I am feeling great... Naaa… but yeah good.  

It is my first publication in my current organization. I wish I could publish its link in my blog too. But I don’t want to incorporate brain work here.

This blog is a true reflection of my inner feelings and it includes heart not brain efforts. So a big NO to my brain work in “IT’S MY LIFE” JJJ

Writing a POV is very tedious job as it demands good reading skills and in-depth domain knowledge. I am an exceptional case. I don’t have both the skills JJJ

Today I have completed my first white paper too on health and safety management systems but its publication will take time. From tomorrow onwards it will go through series of reviews and feedbacks JJJ May be in-between it get rejected too!!! I am keeping my fingers cross.

I want to enjoy every aspect of corporate life before leaving it. I need guts for that and right now I don’t have courage to leave my settled career and switch to the interior decoration field. I am waiting for the right time. I hope that time will come soon!!!

Best Travelogue

Following is the link of one of the best travelogues I have ever read:

http://www.team-bhp.com/forum/travelogues/106603-when-i-went-walking-tibet-kailash-mansarovar-yatra-2011-a.html

After reading this travelogue, I realized that life is too short and I have already wasted half of it by not making any sincere attempt of visiting to such places.

Need to seriously think about it!!!

Wish list edited: Added trip to Kailash-Mansarover too. I will definitely try to cover this place soon. This year 2042 people have applied for this Yatra!!!

Why Cry?

Today I decided to take up this challenge...

Write exactly a 100 words on the prompt and publish it on your blog – a story, a poem, a mini-essay.

Source: http://everydaygyaan.com/2013/02/100-words-on-saturday-week-1/

Crying is the best way to overcome from any overflowing emotions. Crying doesn’t show that we are weak. But it helps to discharge positive (applicable in case of extreme happiness) or negative energy that builds up in our soul.

Crying also proves that we are not a machine; but have feelings too.  I have seen many people who hide their tears because they don’t want to present their soft side to others. Even I am among one of them. When someone hurts me I pretend that everything is fine, but later I try to come out from it by crying.

Wow finally completed it in exactly 100 words. From this challenge I learnt that it is difficult to restrict your writing in a few words ;-) ;-)